Perhaps she has already been thinking of planning her future wedding, throwing the bridal shower, organizing the honeymoon vacation, or pondering which temple to go. Positively, the “He” will be very grateful for her thoughtfulness, because he has been receiving many tasks in his life to accomplish. He is learning to be her husband.
Kyle Johnson, a returned missionary from the China Hong Kong Mission about three years ago. Six months later, he married his wife, Charise Johnson in the Salt Lake City Temple. They have known each other for over six years. Their experience will help you to be a better companion.
“We sort of ended our relationship before my mission as we agreed to give us time to learn and to grow in the very critical two years.” Kyle understood the importance of the commitment to the Lord for serving with all his heart, might, mind and strength. Sacrifice is defined as “the act of giving up something valued for the sake of something else more important or worthy.” It also required the sacrifice from Charise, “It wasn’t easy for me at all during those two years. He didn’t write to me that much, but I know that the time for him was very sacred. It was also hard for him to make the sacrifice. We have come to learn that we may have to sacrifice in order to receive the greatest blessing; now our family is our greatest blessing!”
Kyle said, “Serving in Hong Kong allowed me to grow in an entire different environment such as the language and the culture. I definitely learned how to learn when I am placed in different position. From being a missionary to now a husband, I am still learning every second. And I believe that there is much more to come. I am grateful that Charise is very supportive and willing to learn with me.”
Perhaps their story is very typical for everyone in the Mormon culture, but they did truly learn something that everyone can keep those in mind for preparing our marriage.
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